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Two Years

Sammy and I celebrated our two year wedding anniversary last week! I seriously can't believe that it's already been two years with him.
 
I know it's cliched, but two years ago I had no idea how much more I could fall in love with him. He's truly become my best friend, and we grow more and more together every day. It hasn't always been easy. Not even close. There's been a lot of adjusting, a lot of learning, and a lot of growing together. I remember being surprised our first month of marriage how much we fought in the grocery store, deciding what to buy. But, there's been so much growth and accomplishment. 

In the past two years we've: 
Gone on five trips together
Bought two cars 
Conquered my fear of flying 
Made a home together 
Gotten Sealed 
A job promotion for Sammy
Graduated college
Gotten a real job
Had our first pet (Gerald)
Experienced the death of our first pet (Gerald)

Discovered the magic of Sonic (and many many other places)
Learned to cook so many new things 
Had a lot of laughs
Learned to communicate effectively (well, more effectively. That's always a learning process)
Made lots of friends 

And that's just a baby list. There's so many things that we want to do this summer alone, and onwards. 

To celebrate our two years, Sammy came and visited me at work. We went to my favorite restaurant nearby (make that, the only one I've tried nearby.) It was a low key celebration, but one that works for us at this stage in life. Sammy also did the dishes in the morning which made me swoon. He's been such an amazing support this past month, and always. I'm so excited for upcoming anniversaries and all that comes with them. 


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