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Nervous, Any Advice?

As I write this, it's my last day of summer. And I am nervous. I have no idea what to do! I don't know how I'm going to handle being a full time student and a wife and working! I need to get my school work done an study hard. I only get one chance to go to school and this is my shot! This is my time to learn as much as I can about my craft.

 Yet, I'm a newlywed. This is my only shot at this time as well. I want to start our marriage on a good foundation. Also, I need to earn money for our family. I've already been breaking out like crazy, panic attacks, and anxiety. I've been praying, reading my scriptures, all those nice things. I already struggle with making dinner and that was without school! I've looked into freezer meals and such and am going to try those. But still.

I don't know how to juggle all these roles. I know in the long run, we will get through. But, I also know that a lot of you have been in similar situations and have gotten through! How do you do it? How do you juggle all these roles?! How do you take care of yourself, but support your spouse as well? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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  1. JeanetteAugust 18, 2014 at 7:38 AM

    For us, school got easier after we were married because we weren't trying to juggle dating in the mix too. Think about it, last semester you were already doing most of those things you are worried about but you were also trying to find time to be with Sammy too. Now, he's already there, in the same place as you! Also, freezer meals are awesome! If you can find someone to swap freezer meals with (make a few of the same one, then swap), even better! You can do it!

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